Good Luck Tonight, Baby Bruh Dwayne!
A little while ago, I had a blog post called “I Heart Uppity (Part One)” and if you followed the comments thread, you noticed I had a rather emotional (at least to me) exchange with a brother I called “Dwayne.” He was disturbed about my saying that I would never date a man who’d been to jail.
That brother is a wildly talented young man named Reginald Dwayne Betts, the author of A Question of Freedom, which has been nominated for an NAACP Image Award for Outstanding Literary Work-Debut Author. I am positive it will win tonight. I just got a mojo feeling. I could be wrong, but I hope I’m not.
I will take a chance here and say something directly to Dwayne. And this is not because he is all pre-famous now and I need a loan or nothing. This is because this has been on my heart for a minute, even since Dwayne wrote me in the comments.
Baby Bruh Dwayne, I want to be a sister like Socrates Fortlow talks about in Always Outnumbered, Always Outgunned. I want to kick you in your behind when I see your doing wrong, and kiss you on the head when your doing right.
Dwayne, I see your doing right. I see you, Black Man.
I see how hard you are working as a husband, father, and community/cultural activist. I see your trying to be a brother with a big “B,” and I want you to know that what you are doing is important work. Essential work. And even though you and I are going to disagree on some aspects of my being uppity (smile) I want you to know that your big sister loves you and she is so proud of you.
Good luck tonight! And, I know you gone have on a seriously cute outfit, so take some pictures!